Principles

Growth is Most Important

You cannot accomplish anything without growth. You are born as a baby with absolutely nothing. If you did not grow you would be crawling around on the floor your entire life, being unable to understand or be understood.

Reflect Always

When doing any activity, reflect on it, there is valuable information in your experiences. Don't throw the experience in the trash, mine it for gold.

If you're too busy to reflect, you're too busy

If you cannot spend 10% of your time reflecting on what you did and improving, you need to slow down.

Write Down Your Reflections

Write down your reflections, reflect on the reflections, humans need repetition to form habits and make change.

Never Settle

Never settle for your current state. Always be looking to improve yourself, your situation, and your environment. If you are not improving, you are falling behind.

You Should Cringe Thinking About Yourself 3 Months Ago

If you can cringe at your past self, this means you are growing. 3 months is a long enough time frame for a lot to happen in your life, and I think it is a good sized sprint. In 3 months you can train for a marathon, be conversationally fluent in a language, start a business and get your first customer.

Spend time with people you want to be

The people we spend time with (or content we consume) forms our beliefs. By spending time with people you want to be, you are shaped by their beliefs, which lead to your actions, which lead to the outcomes you desire.

Spend time with old people

Although it is less comfortable to do so, spending time with people that are a few years-decades your senior is beneficial. It is beneficial because you do not frequently do it, so they have perspectives and beliefs you and your peers do not have.

Be Engaged in Your Life

Do not be a passive observer of your life, waiting for things to happen to you. Instead, be engaged, take ownership of your life.

Do Not Make Decisions Under Emotions

From the book [[predictably-irrational]], there is an idea of emotional reasoning, where you make decisions because of your emotions. The problem is that your emotions are quite mallebale, so they are not good for making decisions.

For example, I don't feel like working out as a reason to not work out. You can accept this fate, or change your emotions so you do want to workout. If you want to do something, but your emotions are stopping you, then instead of focusing on achieving the thing, focus on changing your emotions.

Creation is the Highest Form of Existence

Speed Is Quality

When creating, the faster you can create the higher quality you can create. [[scrum]]

If you spend more than 1 hour making something, you should share it

This is beneficial for 2 reasons. For one, it will cause you to focus on making things that other people will gain value from, instead of things that will die alone [[the-practice]] [[essentialism]]. For two, it will allow you to [[on-living-publicly|live publicly]]

Misc

Favors

If you want a favor, position the request as if you’re offering the favor.

If someone comes at your door asking you to do something right away and if they get paid extra if you do what they want, always say no

Experiences with salespeople have shown me that if they are getting paid more if you do what they want, then they will try to manipulate you into doing what they want. This is not a good situation to be in, so always say no.

Environment Is King

My environment has a huge impact on behavior. Imagine if a gun was put onto your head for you to achieve your most important goal. The probability of you achieving it is astronomically higher, even though nothing about your capabilities changed.

If there exists an action that I am afraid to do, but I know is good for me to do, others advise me to do, then I must do it moreso because I am afraid.

This is for several reasons, for one, if I know its good for me to do it, then I should do it, feat should not be a deciding factor. But also, if I am afraid of doing it, then that means it is something uncommon. I am not an average person, so I need to do uncommon or unaverage things. Moreso, if I am afraid, then I should do it because it will help build courage.

I learn meta skills, unorthodox skills, I see the big picture

I learn how to learn, I learn how to plan, I learn time management

Life is more valuable in the future

Intentionality is Key

Intentionality as I define it is acting in ways aligned with your goals. It is the opposite of acting based on short term feelings, pleasures, or randomly.

You Don't Know Yourself

In general, it is not possible for you to exactly who you are or why you do what you do. this is revealed by the [[split-brain-experiment]] where the brain makes up reasons for why it made specific decisions. Therefore, when giving reasons why you did something, always to open for future re-evaluation as to why you did it and acknowledge you do not, and cannot entirely know. This is also related to priming in psychology when you are primed to be more likely to make a decision, such as [[how-your-unconscious-mind-rules-your-behaviour:-leonard-mlodinow-at-tedxreset-2013]]

Making good decisions, being "strict" when I am young will lead to extreme wealth generation because of compounding.

Decision

Don't let the past dictate the best decision for your future (ex. Ergonomic keyboards)

Learning General

Always go a layer deeper in your understanding than others

Self-Mastery Principles

Be Proactive

Take ownership of your life, everything within your circle of influence take responsability for. [[7-habits-of-highly-effective-people]]

Career

Maximize Learning

Maximize your learning and be constantly learning. Jump ahead of everyone else.

Networking Principles

You cannot do it alone

You cannot reach your wildest forms of success solo. You must leverage your connections.

Relationships

Synchronous Communication is Best for Building Relationships

[[the-anxious-generation]]