Date Me

This is a document about dating me. WIP.

Bio/Info

Age: 20

Height: legally 6'0" (actually 5'11.5")

Languages: English (native), Polish (conversational), French (conversational)

Religious views: Atheist1

Drinking/Smoking: No2

Dating Philosophy

To me, the purpose of dating is to identify what qualities of a relationship we want and to spend quality time together.

We should both not take anything personal if we identify there is no union between us. During dating, we might find out that when we originally thought the other person would be a good romantic partner, we would prefer as a friend, that is not a bad thing! I also believe that the relationship we can have can change through time, so even if we are not compatible now, we might be in the future (or vice versa).

Dating Goals

Right now, I'm only open to short-term relationships3 as I want to get more experience, and have fun.

Date Ideas

For first dates I prefer to do things that are active and allow us to talk. Here are some ideas:

  • Gym
  • Run
  • Acro Yoga
  • I can teach you dance!!!
  • Line dance
  • Dance class
  • Walk in the park
  • Rock climb
  • Ice/roller skate
  • Kareoke

Bonus points if it is something novel and not on this list!!!

BONUS POINTS if it is something on my bucket list

If you would like to go on a date, please schedule yourself on my calendar4

Footnotes

  1. I was raised Catholic. Although it is impossible to be 100% certain, I am "as certain as reasonable" that a personal God (Christian God, Jewish God, Muslim God, Hindu Gods, etc.) does not exist. I am open to the idea of some thing having created the Universe/keeps the Universe running (such as what is underpinning physics), but believe it is unlikely the entity behind the Universe cares what we do. ↩

  2. I do not drink or smoke because of the negative health effects and addiction potential. I am theoretically open to other drugs (such as psychedelics) in the right context, but I have no experience with them. ↩

  3. Situationship, friends with benefits, casual dating, friendships. My end goal with dating is to find a life partner to share my life with; however, that is not my current goal. If you are only looking for a serious, long-term relationship and believe we could be a compatible match, submit this form and I will reach out to you when I am ready to "get serious". ↩

  4. This is a joke ↩

Last updated: January 21, 2026